lovely shades of grey

“Black and white” moral judgment doesn’t, can't apply to people.  It may apply to specific acts/events, but even then it’s likely just more stark shades of lighter or darker grey. 

My sister lives in screaming blacks with an occasional splash of blinding white that dulls with every additional recollection.  I, on the other hand, rarely get off the fence.  I like it here – it takes less guts, and people view you as an impartial party, an objective observer. 
My husband is continuously puzzled by my views on life, the Universe and everything. 
He doesn’t know they are,
for the most part,
random,
arbitrary.